Getting Older

Hard to admit, I am getting older. Does this sound familiar? I write everything down, sometimes I can’t find those little pieces of paper where I have jotted down notes or phone numbers.

I bring a list to the grocery store, usually buying other things as well. Takes a long time to put it all away. I date everything. My kids used to come and open the fridge and smell everything before they put it into their mouths.

Getting older isn’t for sissies. The gold in the golden years goes to the doctors. All the cliches are true.

So, what is it like for the caregiver. Someone who is hassled, harried, scared, alone, feeling abandened, exhausted, not knowing what the next day will bring, except more heartaches.

That’s why I say all the time: Give the gift that lasts forever and costs nothing. Adopt A Caregiver, and tell them your friend Helene sent you.

Keep love and kisses in your life. Helene

My Grateful list for today: The sun came out, late, but it came out, I took a nap this afternoon, I did a lot of paperwork, and laid the work out for tomorrow. I watched a movie this afternoon with my husband. I feel better in the evenings than I do in the mornings, and that is something new, but I’m grateful that I feel goo some part of the day. I am grateful to be here with my husband and my family. I feel blessed, don’t you?

And The Mountain Moved

This is a poem I wrote and I’d like to share it with all of you. This is copyrighted material, so be sure and give me credit as the author if you reprint this.

“And The Mountain Moved

I am the little child full of love and laughter and family

and the mountain was huge and scary and far away.

I am the teenager, scared and scarred

and the mountain is still huge.

I am the young adult with stars in my eyes, love in my life, marriage and children

and the mountain seems remote and far away from my busy life.

I am the middle aged woman who worked all my married life, my children are gone and it’s time to find out who I am, and the mountain appears closer.

I am the wise old woman who knows who she is, where she belongs and what her legacy is and that mountain is within me.”

Keep love and kisses in your life. Helene

I'm Learning

Finished rearranging my closet this afternoon, that was a job. Tomorrow I will do my office closet, that won’t nearly be as big a job, but I want to get it done.

I’m signing up for a writing course at UCI in June. That’s exciting for me. I’m going to try and look up an old friend of my, a writing buddy and see if we can reconnect.

This day flew by. At least I accomplished a lot of things.

Tomorrow I’m working on Adopt A Caregiver. I have several things to do and I need to get started on them.

Give the gift that lasts forever and costs nothing. Adopt A Caregiver, and tell them your friend Helene sent you.

Keep love and kisses in your life. Helene

The Apartment is Finished!

Yes, it’s finished. The closet organizers are in, the pictures are all hung up, and I have to say, it looks great. The kids did a fantastic job, they were such a help. We couldn’t have done it without them.

I love being back here with my family. It’s just been so special, it’s hard to explain.

Everyone has helped. My daughter in law came over last night and stayed for over three hours working on my computer emails. She had to call Cox twice, but she got it done.

Now, I’m behind in everything else. I have to put the clothes away in the closet and the stuff away in my office. I have to work on two stories my friends have asked me to look at. I have to work on the text for my Adopt A Caregiver page, and I need to answer some letters. One or two that are important.

I’m working my way into my new journey of Adopt A Caregiver. They are in your neighborhood and they need our support and friendship. Please, give the gift that lasts forever and costs nothing. Adopt A Caregiver and tell them your friend Helene sent you.

Keep love and kisses in your life. Helene